One of the things that I have liked most about being a mom
has been talking to my baby. She probably doesn’t understand a single word I am
saying but she pays attention to me. I know this might be one of the few times
in our relationship where she is rapt with attention by what I have to say.
So I have been taking advantage of this situation by talking
to her about the most inane things (like the plots of all the movies I love) to
serious things (the upcoming elections) to things that I have learned (how
stretching your muscles will avoid pain in the long run and about).
Among the things I have learned is how to cook so I spend a
lot of time talking through some of my favorite recipes. The first thing I
talked through was how to make lentil soup. I explained how you need carrots,
celery and onions because they are aromatics so they add flavor and depth to
recipes. I informed her that there are many kinds of lentils and some need to
cook longer than others. Then I told her my secret ingredients, which I know
will be safe with her (her not speaking at this moment comes in very handy for
my cooking oeuvres).
She seemed pretty interested the first few times I cooked
for her. A number of other times, she
didn’t seem as fascinated as I wanted her to be (namely because of a surprise
dirty diaper). Lately she is more
mesmerized by the shiny pots and pans that hang in the kitchen. All I can say
is that I tried and maybe as she gets older, she will be more intrigued by my
cooking demonstrations. For now, I will just keep trying until there is a
recipe that makes her mouth water and captures all her attention.